I am deciding not to be Hallo-whiney this year on my birthday.

WhatΒ didΒ I want to do on my birthday? I want to do something that will make me feel good about myself. I want to feel sexy and beautiful and feminine.

My D/s relationship is the best thing that has ever happened for my mental health.

Building this D/s relationship has been life changing. It has allowed me the freedom and space to strip away the useless bullshit, knowing it will leave me raw and vulnerable and trust that I will be safe and loved while I rebuild myself.