D/s relationships, the yips, and never perfecting your putting game

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You line it up. You’ve done this a thousand times before. It’s as easy as breathing. You swing. What… the fuck… was that? Shake it off. You’ll get it next time. You wait, you breathe, you prep, you go through...

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Love’s Lessons: Transitioning to 24/7 D/s (Part 2)

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I beg to serve, your wish is my law Now close those eyes and let me love you to death Shall I prove I mean what I’m saying, begging? “Love You To Death” by Type O Negative Making the decision...

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Philosophical ego-death in a 24/7 D/s relationship

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We started this blog because we didn’t see our kind of relationship represented anywhere. As questions came up in our dynamic, and our experiences led us to crossroads, we’ve had to bushwhack our way through it. Interestingly, it’s not the...

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The total power exchange BDSM relationship is a journey (not a destination)

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There’s room for everyone (except those who don’t respect consent) in the BDSM world. No matter how hard (or soft) you play, how many people you play with, or how often you indulge, you’re as Dominant or submissive as you...

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Church is the floor she kneels on

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I try not to overthink our weekly ritual. Church, we call it, is our Saturday night impact play session. I’ve been guiding my submissive through weekly mindfulness exercises involving spanking for well over a year now. The purpose of “Church”...

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Here goes everything: An attempt to live a more authentic life.

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What does living an authentic life mean to you? It is going to differ from person to person, but it is the ultimate goal. Right? To live a life you love, work hard for, appreciate and are proud of.

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Here goes everything: An attempt to live a more authentic life.

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What does living an authentic life mean to you? It is going to differ from person to person, but it is the ultimate goal. Right? To live a life you love, work hard for, appreciate and are proud of.

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