When my partner and I started talking eight years ago, I discovered that I had some very subby tendencies, and it genuinely surprised me.
Recently, I’ve started having some exciting Domme feels and that hasn’t surprised me a bit. I have no desire to Domme my partner, as I’m quite happy with our D/s dynamic we have been cultivating for so many years. The thought of playing with a sub of my own though? In front of my D? Phew. That’s really doing it for me lately.
Nikki is a photographer, writer, and general creator of things. She writes about mental health, sex, and relationships.