Feeling poorly

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It turns out I have a kidney infection. That may be the least sexy thing I’ve written lately, but it’s life and sometimes it’s not all masturbation and blowjobs (much to my dismay, to be clear.) That being said, I...

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Lingerie is for… fantasies

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Recently, I have allowed myself to indulge in some fairly new and filthy fantasies. This has not only been a treasure trove of communication with my partner, but it has kept me ridiculously turned on. All I think about right...

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Mexico, masochism, and Mother’s Day

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You know, as they say, timing is everything. Not that there is ever an ideal time for shitty things to happen, but sometimes, some things sting more than others. When you are raw and sensitive and triggering things just keep...

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Lingerie is for… exhibitionists!

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This weekend I finally finished setting up something I’d been talking about for a long time. A Dropbox folder full of all the images, gifs and videos that Twitter and Instagram wouldn’t let me share. I figured offering a “pay...

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You are so much prettier when you smile

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Twice in the past week I have taken photos of myself that I have been really proud of. I hesitated to share either. Why? Because I wasn’t smiling. That’s it. The lighting was great, I felt sexy, the poses were...

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D/s relationships, the yips, and never perfecting your putting game

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You line it up. You’ve done this a thousand times before. It’s as easy as breathing. You swing. What… the fuck… was that? Shake it off. You’ll get it next time. You wait, you breathe, you prep, you go through...

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Kink for the win

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It is no secret that safely participating in BDSM and kink can be helpful in relieving symptoms of depression, anxiety and a plethora of mental health issues. You don’t have to look too far to read how kink has improved...

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Let’s wrap this up, shall we?

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The past fifteen months of my life have been a ridiculous rollercoaster. Starting in October 2017, I have had some of my lowest lows and some of my highest highs. All of them forcing me to grow and expand in...

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