Non-pathological hypersexuality for the non-lobotomized

Lobotomies were legal in the US as recently as 1967. That might sound like a long time ago, but considering only two years later we’d put humans on the Moon, it doesn’t feel like a practice that should have persisted for so long. And, yet, a cursory review of the most common reasons for lobotomizing …

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Pragmatic male sexuality for Earthlings

  I think the hard sciences fail us and the soft sciences often actively work to harm us. While that’s generally true, in this case, it’s a specific statement on the modern discourse surrounding male sexuality. We know more about the machinations of the quantum universe than we do about the human capacity for sexual …

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My blue Pride

My blue Pride

  Happy… Pride… month? Let me try that again. Ahem. Happypridemonth. Still not there. Happy meh meh meh. Well, fuck. I was starting to think that I sucked at being queer when June 3rd rolled around and I realized I hadn’t written a single thing for Love is a Fetish all month long. That’s 72 wasted hours. …

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If you think there are only two genders you are really bad at science

  What’s that? There are only two genders? People are either born male or female? That doesn’t sound right to me but – oh, you say it’s science? Mmhm. Yep. I see. So you’re saying that biology and psychology clearly and empirically demonstrate the existence of a binary gender construct for homo sapiens? Facts don’t …

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Study: Autistic individuals 3-9 times more likely to be bi, ace, or gay

    Here’s something only a non-autistic person would find surprising: autistic folks are much, much more likely to identify as queer than so-called neurotypicals. Well, let’s not get ahead of ourselves. It’s disclaimer time: We haven’t seen any peer-reviewed research yet, but we did find this interesting article in US News (an outlet we weren’t previously familiar …

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I'm queer enough. So are you.

I’m queer enough. So are you.

      Pride month is only three weeks away, and that means it’s time for people like me to get defensive about who we are. I’m queer. But am I queer enough? Am I pansexual enough? Am I demisexual enough? Who gets to decide? I’m on the asexual spectrum. Like all things human, asexuality …

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This rotating anal toy feels a lot like partnered sex and I love it

  I haven’t had the best luck trying out thrusty, auto-moving style toys, so I was pleasantly surprised when I ended up with two in a row that I thoroughly enjoyed. One of which was this rotating anal plug from Wedol. I don’t say this lightly, but using this toy is the next best thing …

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I, demisexual

I exist. I feel it when I pinch myself. But the evidence for me, for people like me, is very scarce. I’m a demisexual.   I am not sexually attracted to people I haven’t established a deep emotional connection with.    As a demisexual, my sexual identity falls along the asexual spectrum. Some terms that …

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