Philosophical ego-death in a 24/7 D/s relationship

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We started this blog because we didn’t see our kind of relationship represented anywhere. As questions came up in our dynamic, and our experiences led us to crossroads, we’ve had to bushwhack our way through it. Interestingly, it’s not the...

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Notes on a Naughty November

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Our November was quite possibly the sexiest month we have ever had (other than us all getting sick!) A lot of really exciting things happened: 🖤 November was our first full month writing on our blog! (Started mid-October) 🖤My fiance,...

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We don’t do magic when we are sick

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This morning I was reading Kisungura’s newest blog post while I was sitting in my car waiting on my therapy appointment. She wrote: It’s also, however, about lack of opportunity for the same level of connection since we’ve been home and...

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Funny bunny

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But, isn't playing in pudding, dressing up in wigs and fetish heels, wearing a unicorn horn and tail, rocking crooked bunny ears and a fuzzy white tail playful? 

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Church is the floor she kneels on (Part 2)

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A much-ballyhooed 2013 study conducted at Tilburg University claimed people in BDSM relationships have “higher subjective well‐being” than those who identified as vanilla. Journalists and kinky people around the world soon began citing it as scientific evidence for the psychological...

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