dom – Love is a fetish

Philosophical ego-death in a 24/7 D/s relationship

Tristan December 15, 2018December 23, 2018 Advice, Anecdotal babygirl, bdsm, D/s, daddy, daddydom, dom, dominant, ds, Ego death, kink, kinky, philosophy, Power exchange, relationships, religion, sex, sexuality, Sub, submissive1 Comment

We started this blog because we didn’t see our kind of relationship represented anywhere. As questions came up in our dynamic, and our experiences led us to crossroads, we’ve had to bushwhack our way through it. Interestingly, it’s not the...

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Notes on a Naughty November

nikki December 1, 2018December 22, 2018 Anecdotal, Art, Monthly Reflections #fetish, anxiety, birthdays, blog, communication, depression, dom, ds, erotica, fantasy, Fiction, fun, gratitude, holidays, humor, imagination, life, love, marriage, meme, mental health, photography, pie, pleasure, progress, relationships, roleplay, romance, sex, sexy, submission, subspace, Thanksgiving, voyeurism3 Comments

Our November was quite possibly the sexiest month we have ever had (other than us all getting sick!) A lot of really exciting things happened: 🖤 November was our first full month writing on our blog! (Started mid-October) 🖤My fiance,...

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We don’t do magic when we are sick

nikki November 29, 2018December 22, 2018 Anecdotal, bdsm anxiety, blog, communication, confidence, dating, depression, dom, ds, erotica, family, fun, holidays, life, love, marriage, mental health, mother, parenting, progress, relationships, respect, romance, sex, sexy, Subdrop2 Comments

This morning I was reading Kisungura’s newest blog post while I was sitting in my car waiting on my therapy appointment. She wrote: It’s also, however, about lack of opportunity for the same level of connection since we’ve been home and...

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Funny bunny

nikki November 26, 2018December 22, 2018 Anecdotal, Wicked Wednesday #feet, #fetish, Art, bdsm, bdsm art, blog, bunny, communication, confidence, dom, ds, erotica, fantasy, fun, lace, marriage, masks, meme, photography, playful, pleasure, progress, relationships, roleplay, sex, sexy, submissive, tails, tattoos, unicorn26 Comments

But, isn't playing in pudding, dressing up in wigs and fetish heels, wearing a unicorn horn and tail, rocking crooked bunny ears and a fuzzy white tail playful?

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Dirty Thirties

nikki November 24, 2018May 7, 2019 Anecdotal, Art, bdsm birthdays, blog, communication, confidence, dating, depression, dom, ds, erotica, fantasy, fun, growth, imagination, life, love, marriage, mental health, photography, pleasure, progress, relationships, romance, sex, sexy, Thanksgiving, watched23 Comments

Now, when I am bending over in front of him touching myself, I hope he is taking pictures.

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Giggles

nikki November 23, 2018December 22, 2018 Anecdotal Art, bathroom kink, blog, communication, confidence, dating, depression, dom, ds, erotica, fantasy, fun, kink, life, love, mental health, progress, relationships, romance, sex, sexy7 Comments

Our dynamic requires me to be transparent with my partner. We dabble in some edge play, so an always open line of communication is imperative.

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Church is the floor she kneels on (Part 2)

Tristan November 18, 2018December 22, 2018 Anecdotal, bdsm 24/7, communication, daddy, dom, dominant, ds, impact play, relationships, religion, spanking10 Comments

A much-ballyhooed 2013 study conducted at Tilburg University claimed people in BDSM relationships have “higher subjective well‐being” than those who identified as vanilla. Journalists and kinky people around the world soon began citing it as scientific evidence for the psychological...

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