Philosophical ego-death in a 24/7 D/s relationship

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We started this blog because we didn’t see our kind of relationship represented anywhere. As questions came up in our dynamic, and our experiences led us to crossroads, we’ve had to bushwhack our way through it. Interestingly, it’s not the...

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Church is the floor she kneels on (Part 2)

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A much-ballyhooed 2013 study conducted at Tilburg University claimed people in BDSM relationships have β€œhigher subjective well‐being” than those who identified as vanilla. Journalists and kinky people around the world soon began citing it as scientific evidence for the psychological...

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Church is the floor she kneels on

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I try not to overthink our weekly ritual. Church, we call it, is our Saturday night impact play session. I’ve been guiding my submissive through weekly mindfulness exercises involving spanking for well over a year now. The purpose of “Church”...

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A note from the Editor: 11/16/2018

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I recently published my first post on this blog with a promise I’d get into a deeper introduction later. Pull up a chair, it’s later. Nikki, my fiancee and submissive, has done a top-notch job running this blog without me....

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