Tristan

D/s relationships, the yips, and never perfecting your putting game

Tristan January 20, 2019 Advice, Anecdotal, bdsm, D/s, Lessons communication, D/s, dominant, ds, golf, kink, kinky, lessons, life, monogamy, putting, relationships, self-esteem, self-help, sex, submission, yips0 Comment

You line it up. You’ve done this a thousand times before. It’s as easy as breathing. You swing. What… the fuck… was that? Shake it off. You’ll get it next time. You wait, you breathe, you prep, you go through...

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Practical fantasies: D/s protocol for non-billionaires

Tristan January 6, 2019 Advice, Anecdotal, bdsm, D/s advice, anecdotal, bdsm, dominant, ds, fantasy, relationships, sex, sexy, submissive1 Comment

Oh yeah! Now, I have you with me, under my power Our love grows stronger, now, with every hour Look into my eyes, you’ll see who I am My name is Lucifer, please take my hand “N.I.B.” by Black Sabbath...

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What happened to adults-only variety TV shows?

Tristan December 31, 2018December 31, 2018 Anecdotal, Art, bdsm, D/s #fetish, Art, bdsm, couples, D/s, ds, erotica, exhibitionism, kink0 Comment

“We’re sorry, your search could not display any results with the selected filters.” There was an Italian television show in the late 1980s thru early 1990s called “Colpo Grosso” (“Big Shot,” in English). It was an unusual programming cocktail featuring...

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The calm before the storm

Tristan December 31, 2018 bdsm, D/s bdsm, couples, D/s, dominant, sex, submission3 Comments

The ocean takes me in to watch you shake it Watch you wave your powers Tempt with hours of pleasure Take me one more time Take me one more wave Take me for one last ride I’m out of my...

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Love’s Lessons: Transitioning to 24/7 D/s (Part 3)

Tristan December 26, 2018 Advice, Anecdotal, bdsm, D/s, Lessons bdsm, communication, couples, D/s, ds, love, relationships, sex3 Comments

I will give you anything to Say you want to stay, you want me to Say you’ll never die, you’ll always haunt me I want to know I belong to you Say you’ll haunt me Together, together we’ll be together,...

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Love’s Lessons: Transitioning to 24/7 D/s (Part 2)

Tristan December 26, 2018December 26, 2018 Advice, Anecdotal, bdsm, D/s, Lessons, Uncategorized bdsm, communication, couples, D/s, dominant, ds, growth, kinky, relationships, sex, submission1 Comment

I beg to serve, your wish is my law Now close those eyes and let me love you to death Shall I prove I mean what I’m saying, begging? “Love You To Death” by Type O Negative Making the decision...

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Love’s Lessons: Transitioning to 24/7 D/s (Part 1)

Tristan December 26, 2018December 26, 2018 Advice, Anecdotal, bdsm, D/s, Lessons bdsm, communication, couples, D/s, dominant, growth, love, submission4 Comments

Your love is your pain, and pain is your gain You’ll force the fit just to feel the strain You worship the bed with your life Holding sessions of confession every moonlit night “S&M” by 2 Live Crew We begin...

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A party you’re not invited to

Tristan December 24, 2018December 24, 2018 Anecdotal, bdsm, D/s #fetish, bdsm, couples, D/s, daddydom, dominant, ds, exhibitionism, kink, kinky, love, relationships, spanking, voyeurism3 Comments

The high holy holiday for hedonists like us is New Year’s Eve. Sure, Thanksgiving is always a decadent romp in our House, and birthdays are a blast, but the last day of the year is our sexiest by far. Last...

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A note from the editor: 12/21/2018

Tristan December 21, 2018December 23, 2018 D/s bdsm, ds, new years eve, party, sexy, xmas3 Comments

The Holidays are upon us and we’re getting festive here at Love. We’ve got a few announcements we’d like to share, but first, we’re having our office Xmas party tonight. So don’t be surprised if one or both of us...

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Philosophical ego-death in a 24/7 D/s relationship

Tristan December 15, 2018December 23, 2018 Advice, Anecdotal babygirl, bdsm, D/s, daddy, daddydom, dom, dominant, ds, Ego death, kink, kinky, philosophy, Power exchange, relationships, religion, sex, sexuality, Sub, submissive1 Comment

We started this blog because we didn’t see our kind of relationship represented anywhere. As questions came up in our dynamic, and our experiences led us to crossroads, we’ve had to bushwhack our way through it. Interestingly, it’s not the...

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