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Marvel Cinematic Universe to use first openly-gay character as patsy for US atrocity

October 28, 2021October 28, 2021 by Tristan Greene

The upcoming “Eternals” movie, set in the Marvel Cinematic Universe (MCU), will reportedly feature a scene in which the franchise’s first openly-gay character will assume responsibility for the US government’s decision to drop an atomic bomb on the city of Hiroshima. What The Fuck? Okay, right up front, let me point out that I …

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You deserve to feel good about yourself – start challenging insecurity

August 17, 2022October 6, 2021 by Nikki

Insecurity is such a basic-ass bitch, isn’t it? For something that’s just a concept, it sure can shape how we feel about ourselves. Therapy can help but in this economy? That’s not a quick or realistic solution for a lot of us. So rather than waiting until you can address some specific points of trauma/origin …

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What a piece of trash in a tree taught me about living my life

November 30, 2021September 2, 2021 by Nikki

I sat in my backyard the other morning and mindfully appreciated a rare quiet moment. The early morning breeze gently greeted my skin with a welcome good morning caress. The rumbling ocean crashed into the shore nearby. The birds sang sweetly in the tree. And then I heard it, the unmistakable crinkling of that …

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The Yum Yum dildo has such a delightful shape that it inspired me to paint – a review

November 30, 2021August 27, 2021 by Nikki

There is nothing I don’t like about this girthy dildo from Colours Pleasures. I actually loved it so much, it inspired me to paint my first watercolor cock. I am really, really happy with how this painting came out. ✨ pic.twitter.com/XN2InsMpLq — ☠🖤 Darling Nikki 🖤☠ (@loveisafetish) August 27, 2021 As I’ve …

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This gorgeous glass toy looks so pretty

December 27, 2022August 20, 2021 by Nikki

This glass dildo from Icicles didn’t disappoint. I’ve tried a few other glass toys, and the shape and texture of them never really did it for me, so I was a little concerned about this one when I opened up the box and discovered that it had some veiny texture on the shaft. I was …

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Growth isn’t always immediately apparent

November 30, 2021August 20, 2021 by Nikki

One of our toddler’s favorite books right now includes a line that reads “You can’t see the flower grow” and it really resonated with me. Mostly because I had to really think about how I felt about that sentiment. Like a lot of us since the pandemic started, I do quite a bit of indoor …

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I’m doing the best that I can

November 30, 2021June 29, 2021 by Nikki

CW: mentions of alchohol, mental health, ADHD, depression, RSD I often feel like I’m losing time and it makes it hard to breathe. Watching my life pass me by, so many plans made and forgotten. Moving to a new country, not meeting new people, not exploring a new culture, just so much hiding. Some …

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It’s my mother’s birthday and I’ll cry if I want to

November 30, 2021June 24, 2021 by Nikki

Today is my mother’s birthday. I haven’t heard from her in over two years. Not since we moved here. I tried to call a couple of weeks ago but never got a callback. Which was…kind of devastating, to be honest. It took a lot to work up the nerve to call. Putting yourself out …

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Here’s why your brain has a mind of its own when it comes to sexual fantasies

November 30, 2021June 18, 2021 by Tristan

A significant percentage of adults experience strong sexual fantasies. But why? Scientists have tried to explain human thought patterns by observing brain activity, studying human response to stimuli, and conducting innumerable studies. This is useful in explaining what’s going on when I try to think of something sexual. But to the best of our knowledge, …

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Pragmatic male sexuality for Earthlings

November 30, 2021June 14, 2021 by Tristan

I think the hard sciences fail us and the soft sciences often actively work to harm us. While that’s generally true, in this case, it’s a specific statement on the modern discourse surrounding male sexuality. We know more about the machinations of the quantum universe than we do about the human capacity for sexual …

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