couples – Love is a fetish

Strapping on a relatively realistic cock gave me a surge of confidence. Who knew?

nikki June 9, 2019June 9, 2019 photography, Reviews #fetish, body positive, body safe, couples, dildos, fantasy, fun, kinky, masturbation, pegging, photography, realistic cock, relationships, review, roleplay, sex blog, sex toy, sex toy review, strap-on, suction-cup dildos3 Comments

I am a big fan of sex toys. Even so, there are a few avenues of toys I haven’t explored much. One of which being life-like silicone cocks with balls. I didn’t necessarily avoid them, but I tended to go...

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Mexico, masochism, and Mother’s Day

nikki May 31, 2019May 31, 2019 Anecdotal, mental health bdsm, blog, bodypositive, communication, couples, D/s, daddydom, depression, dominant, life, love, marriage, mental health, parenting, photography, relationships, self-esteem, self-help, sex blog, therapy3 Comments

You know, as they say, timing is everything. Not that there is ever an ideal time for shitty things to happen, but sometimes, some things sting more than others. When you are raw and sensitive and triggering things just keep...

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Lingerie is for… exhibitionists!

nikki April 30, 2019April 30, 2019 Anecdotal, D/s, Lingerie is for everyone, photography, Wicked Wednesday #feet, #fetish, #lingerieisforeveryone, Art, black lace, blog, bodypositive, communication, confidence, couples, D/s, dominant, ds, exhibitionism, kink, kinky, lingerie, love, masturbation, photography, relationships, self-esteem, sex, sex blog, sexy, submission, voyeurism, wicked wednesday17 Comments

This weekend I finally finished setting up something I’d been talking about for a long time. A Dropbox folder full of all the images, gifs and videos that Twitter and Instagram wouldn’t let me share. I figured offering a “pay...

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This vibrating butt plug was a welcome addition to date night

nikki April 30, 2019 photography, Reviews anal plugs, anal sex, anal toys, blog, body safe, body safe toy, bullet vibrator, couples, exhibitionism, fun, hands-free, kinky, life, love, marriage, monogamy, photography, prostate, relationships, review, self-esteem, sex, sex blog, sex toy review, silicone, toys, vibrating anal plugs, vibrating bullet, voyeurism, waterproof, wireless control4 Comments

Those who follow me on social media probably know I’m a huge advocate for date night. Whether you’re poly and juggling several relationships or monogamous and trying to make time for your one and only, having a specific time set...

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Collaring

nikki March 16, 2019March 18, 2019 #365photochallenge, Art, bdsm, D/s, Erotica, Masturbation Monday, Sinful Sunday 365photochallenge, Art, bdsm, blog, confidence, couples, D/s, dominant, ds, erotica, exhibitionism, fantasy, fun, kinky, love, marriage, mastubation Monday, meme, monogamy, photography, relationships, respect, self-esteem, sex blog, sexy, submission, voyeurism18 Comments

Nothing makes me feel freer, more empowered, loved and confident than when he slips my collar around my neck, fastens it and gives me a soft kiss on the nape of my neck. It is my peace, my reprieve, my...

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February Stars

nikki February 23, 2019 #365photochallenge, Art, FebPhotoFest2019, photography #fetish, Art, bdsm, bodypositive, couples, D/s, ds, exhibitionism, fantasy, February photofest, kinky, legs, meme, photography, sex blog, sexy, submission, voyeurism0 Comment

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An unexpected fantasy

nikki January 23, 2019 Fiction, Friday Flash Fiction, Wicked Wednesday #fetish, anal, bdsm, blog, CNC, couples, D/s, dominant, ds, erotica, fantasy, fun, kink, kinky, meme, pegging, power play, relationships, rough play, sex blog, sexy, strap-on, submission15 Comments

What a piss poor day. If she could just squeak out a decent orgasm, she might be able to get some sleep and put it behind her. She called back to her go-to fantasy where her partner takes her ass...

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Something about a lake

nikki January 13, 2019January 14, 2019 bdsm, D/s #fetish, Art, bdsm, couples, D/s, daddydom, dominant, ds, erotica, exhibitionism, fun, kinky, masturbation monday, photography, relationships, sex, sex blog, sexy, spanking, submission, wooden spoon13 Comments

Bent over, face buried in the couch I focused on what I could hear. Past my deep breathing I listened to his jeans dragging across the carpet as he slowly paced behind me. The fan above my head and the...

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In his hand

nikki January 12, 2019January 12, 2019 #365photochallenge, Art, photography, Sinful Sunday #fetish, Art, ass out, bodypositive, bottom, bottoms up, bumweek, couples, D/s, erotica, exhibitionism, fantasy, fun, kink, kinky, meme, photography, sex, submission, voyeurism30 Comments

🎵 He’s got the whole world in his hand 🎵

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Kink for the win

nikki January 10, 2019January 10, 2019 Anecdotal, bdsm, D/s #fetish, Art, bdsm, blog, bodypositive, communication, confidence, couples, D/s, depression, dominant, ds, exhibitionism, fun, growth, honesty, kink, kinky, love, mental health, photography, relationships, respect, self-esteem, self-help, sex, sex blog, sexy, spanking, submission, therapy, voyeurism6 Comments

It is no secret that safely participating in BDSM and kink can be helpful in relieving symptoms of depression, anxiety and a plethora of mental health issues. You don’t have to look too far to read how kink has improved...

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