This cute lil cat vibe just does it for me – a review

    When I agreed to review this Mrs Katty, I didn’t have the highest hopes. I’d just reviewed several clit sucker toys that I didn’t enjoy and this didn’t look like it was going to be much different, but it was cute and that was enough to make me want to check it out. …

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When a face oil heals more than skin deep – a review

    c/w: mental health, triggers Scent is a funny thing, isn’t it? The mere whisper of a familiar smell can instantly take you back to place where all of your other senses are triggered. The smell of an ocean breeze can send you to a place in your head where you can hear the …

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I’m okay

c/w: anxiety, mental health. If you have anxiety, you can probably relate to the nonsensical mess that runs through your head when you are feeling it heavy. If you don’t, I try here to offer a little insight into the running dialogue in my head when mine gets the better of me.  Sitting at the …

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This Butters Hygienics face mask is a fabulous addition to any self-care routine

Disclaimer a) We no longer support these products or this company. This review remains for posterity’s sake only. All links have been removed.   I suck at taking care of myself. Really. It’s a struggle. As a working parent and a partner of two, I don’t often prioritize me. I’m working on it. So when …

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What tf do you want?

If you’re unhappy, make a change. Sounds simple enough, right? Turns out a lot of us don’t actually want things to change. Dr David Burns explains in his book, Feeling Good Together, he tells his patients when asking for his help with their relationships, that they have three options: make a change, leave the relationship …

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I reviewed this massage oil by The Butters Hygienics Company and all I got was deeper intimacy and glowing skin

Disclaimer: We no longer support these products or this company. This review remains for posterity’s sake only. All links have been removed.   Massage and touch play such prominent roles in my relationships that I was thrilled when The Butter’s Hygienics Company sent me a bottle of their Summer Honey massage oil to try out. …

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The Ruby by Vibease is the prettiest vibrator that does zilch for my body

  When I first opened the Ruby and shared photos, the reaction was pretty much unanimously “ooh how pretty!” One of Vibease’s Jewel collection, the Ruby is part of a line of jewel-inspired toys that are all little works of art with their lovely combination of curves and geometric lines. The Ruby has soft silicone …

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The Satisfyer Pro 2 makes my rockin’ world go ’round

I have a highly sensitive clit, so I’d avoided most toys designed for “suction” for quite some time. Vibrations are more than welcome, but since even a tender sucking during oral sex is usually too much direct contact, I worried it might be a waste of time for me to try something that was more …

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It’s okay to want to feel validated. Seriously.

I couldn’t tell you how many times I sat in my therapists office last year as she so easily and nonchalantly said “Of course, you just want your feelings validated.” Like this was common knowledge. I didn’t even understand it when she said it to me the first time. I’ve spent my entire life hearing …

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Music is my gospel

Music is such an important part of my life. It always has been. The few pleasant memories I have of my father are some summer afternoons when I was home from school with him and we would pick my mom up from work. It was about a 30 minute drive from way out in the …

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5 reasons why you should start a mini water propagation garden today